Quote from book “Maria Montessori : Her Life and Her Work”
” Montessori method is based fairly and squarely on the spontaneous activity of the intellect.
It was usually taken for granted that it was not natural for children to work for any length of time without the stimulus of some extraneous motive. They would play continuously for long periods, but work – no! An important part of the teacher’s art, therefore, consisted in knowing how to keep their attention fixed on the matter in hand – sugaring the pills in various ways, which included the use of rewards and punishments.
Montessori’s view of the matter is quite different. If children do not reveal a desire to work spontaneously, the fault lies not in the children but in the manner of presenting the subjects to be studied. She believes that if children are bored, inattentive, uncomprehending, it is because the methods of teaching used present insuperable barriers to the “spontaneous” functioning of the child’s mind.”
Following my blog post last week on “Coffee Session at School” I had been trying to figure out why Julian does not seem to be very interested in learning alphabets and sounds in school and home.
When I was reading this book, the quote is an answer to me. It brought me to see things from another perspective. Not him, but me… Nagging at him to sit still, scolding him to pay attention is going to bring his interest even further away. Can’t expect him to pay attention with no interest too…
Next step… BE POSITIVE!
Hmm.. and explore new ways to bring the subject to him…